1. Learn to be okay with failure
Lots of guys know this example all too well...
You're at a party, you see someone attractive, and you don't do anything about it.
You're frozen while every possible situation known to man is playing out in your head of what would happen if you went up to talk to them.
Usually guys automatically think of the worst thing that could happen! But really... what is the worst thing that happens? You get rejected? OKAY FINE!
When someone rejects you they are doing you a favor in NOT WASTING YOUR TIME!
Be okay with failing, know everyone goes through it. But the people who really succeed are the ones who can bare failure and accept it, and use it to their advantage.
2. Don't be a perfectionist
Stop trying to hit a home run every time you're on bat.
Focus on being 1% better each and every day.
Stop overthinking of how "It's not the right time" "I don't have enough money" "I don't look good" etc.
Start focusing on being in the moment and what you are in control of at this time.
The rest will flow!
3. You're more confident than you think
You make so many unconscious decisions each and every day.
Don't let the major conscious decisions you make get you all freaked out.
There is always going to be someone less confident than you, and someone with a little more confidence... but who cares!
YOU are confident, and all you have to do is take action and watch what happens!
4. Start Investing in how you present yourself
Start investing in products, clothes, or colognes that make you look good/smell good.
When you look good/smell good, you feel good, and when you feel good you are way more confident!
So, do that every day! Put on that nice outfit, use that nice cologne, get that beard looking great. Present yourself as the best version of you, and life will give you the benefits.
5. Get a routine going
This routine can be with anything: men's grooming, working out, yoga. It doesn't matter.
The more you do something consistently over and over again, the more results you'll see.
When you start gaining that traction and start seeing the progress you're making, there is a light switch that turns on.
When you feel that switch turn on... trust me you'll feel a huge confidence sensation come over you!
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